I got up extremely early this morning to take Pedro to work, since he didnâ€™t get the holiday off.
Soon after getting home, I noticed my Facebook friend Mark Segal — founder, owner and publisher of the renowned Philadelphia Gay News — had posted his column from last week. I’m two weeks behind in reading.
I love and respect Mark because he’s amazing: the nationâ€™s most-award-winning commentator in LGBT (lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender) media.
That said, Iâ€™m going to bury the details. Thereâ€™s a reason and it’s because this week, he came up short.
First, read his column here or in the embed.
You’ll notice on Facebook, I responded with:
â€œMark, Israel’s oppression of Palestine? Who are these people of Palestine? The ones who massacred the Jews of Hebron in 1929? The ones who refused the U.N. partition plan in 1947? The ones who support terrorism, teach hate, and have turned down every peace opportunity? The ones you failed to include in your list of so many homophobic groups of people.
Why do the gay “Palestinians” try to sneak into Israel? Freedom to be themselves, or so their own families don’t kill them? Why do most of the straight ones in Jerusalem want to stay Israeli citizens? That doesn’t sound like oppression to me.â€
Then, he gave a quick response: â€œI’ve written time and time again all that you have stated. Point is most in our community try to tie international issues to our struggle for equality without understanding the issues.â€
To Mark’s credit, he â€œlikedâ€ my response.
However, I don’t think it went far enough. That’s why I wrote back, and I’m also doing so here because I feel strongly the point is so important:
Yes, Mark. You have â€œwritten time and time again all (I) have stated.â€ (Your words.)
And yes, Mark. â€œMost in our community try to tie international issues to our struggle for equality without understanding the issues.â€
In other words, unfortunately, most in our community are ignorant because they donâ€™t understand the issues.
Thatâ€™s a disappointment and shows your writing â€œtime and time againâ€ has not gotten through.
For example, take this column. You were pretty clear about most of the countries you mentioned.
However, when it came to Israel, you wrote the longest of your 10 paragraphs (159 words). You focused on â€œa powder keg of disputeâ€ rather than â€œThere is no question that Israel is the most gay-friendly country in the Middle Eastâ€ and I think that was a mistake.
Then you spent the rest of the paragraph (135 words, or 85 percent) being negative towards Israel. You condemned its current government (that allows it to be â€œthe most gay-friendly country in the Middle Eastâ€). You said the worst thing about them is â€œthey work in collaboration with the Trump administration to move the U.S. Embassy to Jerusalemâ€ which is perfectly within its rights.
Like it or not, Jerusalem is Israelâ€™s seat of government, the Knesset (parliament) is there, and every country decides the site of its capital. This is one call President Trump got right, and former presidents for more than 20 years have not.
It is not a gay rights issue.
Then, you wasted 89 words (66 percent, which is nearly two-thirds of the paragraph) doing the job of Israel-bashers and anti-Semites (if thereâ€™s a difference) bringing up a vicious boycott that hasnâ€™t worked, and comparing Israel to South Africa under apartheid.
You failed to clearly teach our community that does not understand the issues there is no apartheid in Israel, that Israel rescued so much of the Ethiopian Jewish population which is black and that black Israelis and non-Jewish Israelis have the same rights as everyone else. All types of Israelis get elected to the Knesset, serve on the Supreme Court, join the army, become beauty queens, etc.
Today is Martin Luther King, Jr. Day (page 9 in link) and that great man said, â€œI have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin, but by the content of their character.â€
That is Israel.
That paragraph in your column — its largest — was a wasted opportunity to inform, which we both know is the point of a news organization. You did not state unequivocally that Israel is morally right as a supporter of the LGBT community, and the Palestinians are morally wrong for being homophobic — plus all the history I stated in my previous post.
Not strictly differentiating between right and wrong — and allowing the less educated, simple among us to continue to use intersectionality, and their prejudices towards Israel and the Jewish people — was a disservice. Ignoring it allowed misinformation to continue.
Mark, you are usually a terrific writer. I bought your book. You were nice enough to autograph the portion of Larry Kane’s book, Larry Kane’s Philadelphia, about you for me and also for my parents.
You’ve done a ton of creative and constant protesting for the LGBT community over five decades. Youâ€™ve traveled extensively and know better. This was not your best column.
I rarely write about the Middle East. In fact, I haven’t since this story in early 2015 about Israel having injected some Ethiopian immigrants with a birth control drug, how it involved about 30 women, lasted for about three months and ended because Israelis found out and were furious.
Oh, and the anti-Israel reaction since the story was misleadingly brought up after more than two years. And how Israel is constantly being treated differently than every other country in the world. (By the way, look for the part that reads â€œa fair and just immigration policy in our own country.â€ Who knew we’d still be discussing that?)
That makes some of us very defensive.
A month earlier, there was my very first blog. Three years and four days ago, I wrote how reaction to a terror attack in France was different than terror attacks in Israel, and what it would look like with the shoe on the other foot.
(Side note: Anniversary missed. Can’t let that happen again!)
Here is some more on Dr. King and Israel, thanks to the group Stand With Us.
Click here to watch Dr. King state, â€œThe whole world must see that Israel must exist and has the right to exist, and is one of the great outposts of democracy in the world.â€
Other examples of his positions on Zionism and Israel include:
— â€œPeace for Israel means security, and we must stand with all our might to protect its right to exist, its territorial integrity. I see Israel as one of the great outposts of democracy in the world, and a marvelous example of what can be done, how desert land can be transformed into an oasis of brotherhood and democracy. Peace for Israel means security and that security must be a reality.â€
— â€œIsrael’s right to exist as a state in security is incontestable.â€
— â€œWhen people criticize Zionists they mean Jews, you are talking anti-Semitism.â€
Clarence B. Jones, personal attorney and close adviser to Dr. King, said:
— â€œI can say with absolute certainty that Martin abhorred anti-Semitism in all its forms, including anti-Zionism.â€
–â€œMartin â€¦ warned repeatedly that anti-Semitism would soon be disguised as anti-Zionism.â€
According to Rep. John Lewis (D-Ga.), civil rights leader and one of the 13 original Freedom Riders: â€œ(MLK) understood that a special relationship exists between African Americans and Jews â€¦ He knew that both peoples were uprooted involuntarily from their homelands. He knew that both peoples were shaped by the tragic experience of slavery. He knew that both peoples were forced to live in ghettoes, victims of segregation â€¦ He knew that both peoples were subject to laws passed with the particular intent of oppressing them simply because they were Jewish or black. He knew that both peoples have been subjected to oppression and genocide on a level unprecedented in history.â€
I may be wrong, but Iâ€™m going to guess Mark is working extra hard since heâ€™s between permanent editors for the first time in years. He definitely means well and usually does well. But notice, since I wrote so little on that, it doesn’t come across as the focus of this blog — just like â€œThere is no question that Israel is the most gay-friendly country in the Middle Eastâ€ in the column.
Mark has put his own freedom on the line for the cause too many times to count. He knows how to take a stand. I just just wish he’d done so this time, for the issue’s importance, and that more people may be reading PGN if they’re off from work due to the holiday.
P.S. I have a positive update on my mother since Thursday’s post, after she fell in the kitchen and broke her pelvis in three places. Yesterday, she was transferred from the hospital to rehab. She’s expected to be there for physical therapy, two weeks minimum. Then, she and my fathher will need help when she returns home.